Bedtime Routine (The Value of )

Monday, October 13, 2008

Children busy, busy day, parents occupied. . . Chill-out and the wind with a ritual.
At the end of a long, long day, your child needs active wind Homestretch for a good night's sleep.
Children have different needs bedtime and wants, according to their routines and habits. Even some older children's preferences back to early childhood - the lighting of the nursery, noise and music, bottles and pacifiers, and how they were placed in the nursery each night. Did you rock and hold your baby to sleep and then be placed in the nursery? Have you Kiss Goodnight him, turn off the lights and close the door, let him develop his own methods of falling asleep?

Children can be vigilant in their habits. The good news is, old habits can be broken and set new so quickly.
If your evenings are hectic and hurried, leaving exhausted, but your child not quite exhausted, plan a ritual.
The idea is to reduce. It is difficult, especially for active kids to "turn off" and relax enough to sleep at the end of the day. A bedtime can help routine

Getting on track with a ritual
Set your child ritual while he is still young. Do not stuff anything you want your kids to do in their evening ritual. Keep it simple:

* A bathroom. If your morning routine is quite hectic, your children have to take baths or showers at night. A hot bath can be relaxing and help calm your child.
* A story. Sharing a book with your child in bed is an excellent way to encourage daily reading. Define a number of pages and stick to it during the night in a page or two. If you're reading chapter books that are convincing or exciting, do not end your reading with a Cliffhanger particularly exciting. May your child be too wrapped up in history to move to get enough sleep.
* A snack. Fast, but not rushed. Not too cookies, desserts, snacks and soda right before bedtime. Too much sugar and too many calories could give your child a jolt of energy and it will have difficulty falling asleep. And caffeine? The forgotten.

* A kiss and a song. Kids love little rituals. Say a few lines from a poem together, sing a good song, or anything just to yourself and your child to do.
* A prayer. Whatever your religious beliefs, a prayer before bedtime is the way you teach your child an important practice at night. If you are not part of a religion, teach your children that these few minutes before falling asleep is the ideal time to look back on the day, reflect on your actions, and look forward to the next day.
* Music. Many children find that soft music soothing thing they need to sleep. Before you turn the lights, put on a few songs on a CD or turning on a classical music radio station programmed to turn off after 10 minutes.

Keeping on Track
To keep your ritual on a time line, you must start on time, which means you have to finish the day on the calendar. If dinner is late, homework is late, if friends are too long, that will push your bedtime routine later hours.
If your children dawdle, thinking they can push bedtime, let them know that the optional activities in their ritual will be the first to go, to stay on the calendar.

Start early
If they are going to help your child settle down after a busy day, bedtime routines can not be rushed. Start your ritual early enough that you can allow your child to leisure take a bath, read a story, snack, or what your bed before schedule. Run through the last hour before bedtime will only serve to boost your child more.

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